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Ayurveda has an easily understandable explanation and treatment for common sexual problems in men (and women). And I as a healer by intimacy and eternal student and practitioner of Ayurveda want to let men know about them. I will do so in the alphabetical order of the most common sexual [more...]
How Ayurveda Explains Erectile DysfunctionAUGUST 1, 2024 | MEN'S WELLBEING, MASSAGE, AROMATHERAPY | EDITHow does Ayurveda explain erectile dysfunction? If the western world has excellent sanitation, advanced healthcare, and all the food and medicines that one can think of, why can so many men not make their penises rise to the occasion? Surely if [more...]
The society is broken, people are broken. Hence coaching will have only higher value. And that applies in all spheres of life – sport (where coaching came from), business, personal affairs, and especially the defunct adult industry which counts under personal affairs. Men who have to pay for women have problems somewhere in [more...]
Gentlemen, here is how Ayurveda explains why your partner never or rarely wants sex when you do! I guarantee you that after reading this you will understand yourself and your partner much better! AyurvedaAyurveda is a Sanskrit word which means the science of life. And a very profound science and the oldest of all [more...]
Men who seek deep connection go online. They’re willing to spend years of time, money, energy on finding it. But when one out of a million women finally offers the opportunity to create a deep connection, many men don’t want it. How is this contradiction possible? The problem lies in the fact that…Men make the [more...]
Massage is brilliant for good sleep. Why? I’ll tell you in this short article which was born thanks to a conversation with a man who has been getting massage from me for years. Bless his heart and I thank him for the loyalty and inspiration! I wrote that conversations are important for [more...]
How to get intimacy into marriage? This will interest all married or partnered men who haven’t been intimate with their dear wives or partners for years and don’t know how to bring intimacy into the marriage or partnership again even if they dearly love the ladies of their lives. Married [more...]
Why doesn’t the adult industry fulfil its role in the society? How is it possible that the adult industry which turns billions a year worldwide leaves so much sexual deprivation worldwide? How can it be that men seem to be more deprived of sex than ever at the time of [more...]
There are men who see my three roles of a companion, massage therapist, and coach as conflicting or contradicting instead of a holistic package. But these men don’t look beneath the surface. Here’s why these roles are absolutely not conflicting and happily cohabit in a beautiful package which holistically looks after [more...]
Why is the value of coaching for men who visit adult entertainers so high? And why is it impossible to quantify by a precise figure? Because it is intangible, yet so very tangible in these men’s lives! As value is intangible, it is not easy to grasp. But I’ll do my best [more...]
Because nobody does and because asking questions is important for the benefit of the men who see me. And why are many men shocked and suspicious when I ask many questions at the beginning of our acquaintance? Again, because nobody else does.Women in this industry do not ask questions, hence asking [more...]
Men who see courtesans usually expect to be intimate with them. Yet why do 99% of men call for intimacy when they have broken up with partners, are frustrated, despondent, or angry with a circumstance?Intimacy should come from celebration, not despondency, desperation, frustration, or even anger with something or someone. [more...]
The society will continue to go digital. People buy even human connection digitally nowadays. And will continue to do so even more. But isn’t it ironic? That people want to connect with another human being, yet don’t even want to talk to her before they buy her? Here’s why I’ll [more...]
Conversations are at the centre of a man’s satisfaction on a date with a companion. They are also at the centre of satisfying massage if men want regular massages. And they are intimacy. But how many men and women who allegedly buy and sell connection and intimacy have conversations? Why are conversations important for [more...]
Why I charge what I charge is a frequent question. And I’ll also tell you why my rates are excellent value because there will always be men who don’t see the value. Of course, in a world where everything is so expensive and prices rise we all want the best for the [more...]
Many people from strangers to yearslong friends ask me to send them pictures of me. I always say no. And here’s why. To send pictures can be a dangerous weaponYou have certainly come across numerous stories about celebrities who took intimate pictures of each other when things went well between them [more...]
What are the most frequent mistakes that massage therapists make? Why is it good for men who go for massages to know them? How will you be able to quickly spot whether the massage therapist is good or fake? I’ve contemplated for years whether to publish this information on my site, [more...]
While most women who usually sell different things from what I do have pictures on their sites from one room in one outfit in several poses, I’m proud to have differentiated myself on this point from the start. But how much effort goes into the pictures that you see on my [more...]
Time, money, and energy are our most valuable resources. I have written how men can always have enough money for their pleasures. So doesn’t it make sense to enrich the subject by writing about how men can always have enough time for their pleasures? Time = men’s most frequent objection to pleasuresTime flies fast. And [more...]
Discretion: every man who sees companions, courtesans, or has a mistress wants it. Even men who go for genuine medical massages want discretion! And many women promise it. But how does discretion reflect itself in the little details that men and women play out in daily lives and communications? Are people really [more...]
Getting a companion for international travel needs consideration! It is marvellous for your pleasure and convenience, but…. You should definitely consider these things before you hire a companion for international travel to or with you: it is possible to calculate travel expenses exactly. But when things go wrong en route, your companion could run out [more...]
In this article I’ll tell you why so many people use the word mature outdatedly when they relate it purely to age. Especially in the context of sorting companions, courtesans, models, escorts, etc. by age. And why its outdated usage is conventionalized so deeply that nobody questions it when surfing the net for [more...]
If you’re a seasoned recipient of massage, you may strongly prefer getting it on a massage table – or not. If you’re a man who stumbled across my blog and immersed himself in its pearls of wisdom, I’ll tell you the pros and cons of massage tables. And which option you’d get if you [more...]
Gentlemen, why is it better to go to an independent masseuse than a massage clinic or parlour if you want a real quality massage? Massage clinics and parlours are clinical.And their clinical conveyor beltish atmosphere doesn’t exactly induce relaxation, which is the whole point of going for a massage! After all, think about [more...]
Reviews used to be good – when people started posting them. And they still can be good – in some industries. But not in that of high end companionship. Hence why should men not waste time with reading reviews of elite companions? And definitely not of me?Firstly because reviews of high [more...]
One of the most frequent objections I hear is that men don’t have enough money to see their companions courtesans, mistresses, as often as they’d like – or can’t afford pleasures at all. But this is not an insurmountable problem. And here is how to surmount it. The key to men having enough money for pleasures [more...]
t might sound far fetched on first hearing. But it’s definitely true – and would make many a woman cringe. Having a companion or mistress is healthy for a man. Here’s why. Nature designed men to be promiscuous.In the world of animals the males of many species impregnate a female, but don’t stay with her for [more...]
…and hasn’t been for a long time. Where has high class gone? Why? How does a man looking for a courtesan tell who really is of high class? After all, everyone seems to claim to be…Sliding standardsThe concept of high class in companionship has changed. Firstly, the time when the [more...]
n conversations about aromatherapy I often hear the objection that people don’t trust it to cure their conditions more than they trust commercially prepared medications from pharmacies and health or drug stores. One conversation about the potency of aromatherapy with a longtime loyal recipient of my massages inspired me to share why aromatherapy [more...]
Did you find a link to my site in a directory listing? Or better still, did you find my site on a search engine and not in a directory listing? Then I invite you to bear the following in mind: The details in a directory listing are not always 100% reliable,because the [more...]
Corporate life has taken and will continue to take it out of many a man. Aromatherapy – the application of essential oils and their blends – is an easily available, ecological, kinder to the body than synthetic drugs, immensely effective, and (considering that you need very small amounts) inexpensive solution to [more...]
Most men want to spend their finer moments with intelligent, smart, sophisticated women with perfect bodies, flawless skin, immaculate presentation, and no faults. But they wince at the prospect of paying for the privilege. They argue that the commercial side of the relationship makes them feel uncomfortable. Well, most men don’t [more...]
Different folks, different strokes. Those of you who travel a lot or live abroad know this adage well. It applies to every aspect of life. And high end companionship is no exception. How do men from different cultures understand the concept of high end companionship? And how do cultural differences reflect [more...]
Would you sleep without me? Sleeping with me would keep you awake! And keeping awake is what people in today’s at least western society certainly do way too much of – to the cost of their health, productivity, and quality of life. Do you sleep enough? Or do you cast this [more...]
One of the prevalent reasons why I send nine out of ten men who approach me elsewhere is that I quickly discover that our union would highly likely end in a disaster because of their unrealistic expectations. Here I list the most common unrealistic expectations that I’ve come across. I do it [more...]
Although massage is generally enormously beneficial and certainly a great pleasure when done well, there are occasions when you should not have it. What are those occasions? You should certainly not have massage when you have:any serious medical condition. It’s best to ask your doctor(s) if they allow it.a high temperaturean infection [more...]
If you regularly exercise – especially in busy gyms – in 3 sets of 12, 15, or 20 exercises, you’ll be familiar with your brain going off course while the body is going through the sequence. Somewhere you suddenly realize that you’ve lost count and are in a quandary about whether you’re [more...]
Have you ever noticed that some people have your immediate respect while others do not? And have you observed that some people have great ideas but nothing happens with them? Do you know people who say they will do something but never do it? Do you say that you’ll do something [more...]
Be inspired by reading on if you live in the northern hemisphere. I say this, because while enjoying the height of summer in the southern one, people have no reason to even dream of issues that this article discusses! This article also won’t interest you if you’re so motivated to achieve your [more...]
Change of habits is not merely a matter of knowledge or skill. If that was true, then all information campaigns on how to improve your health would have made behaviour-related illnesses a thing of the past. We would all be slim and rich and teenage girls would not get pregnant. Sadly, [more...]
Valentine’s Day was established by papal decree in 496AD as a day to celebrate our intimate relationships with those we love most deeply. At that time it wasn’t connected with romantic love. In the high Middle Ages during the time of development of courtly love as a tradition Geoffrey Chaucer changed [more...]
Why do high end companions have a reputation for being greedy? And how do their clients feed the greed? High end companions inflate their worthIs any football / hockey player worth several thousands of currency per week? Are high end female companions, courtesans, mistresses worth thousands per hour? Human life is irreplaceable and timeincreases [more...]
How are we redefining giving in our prosperous world? What’s making us rethink our forms of giving when we’re having it so good in life? And why do so many successful men leave giving to themselves till who knows when?Giving thanksDespite many affairs of the world going downhill and an economy [more...]
Does it pay to be honest with and about money? If it does, does it pay more than it would if one weren’t honest? Is it stupid to be honest in situations which give the option not to be honest with money? Will the last 2 paragraphs give you a valuable insight? [more...]
Albeit many people have told me that they wouldn’t live in the States even if one paid them, I’ve never heard anyone say anything bad about Canada – yet. So why is Canada enjoying such a lovable status? Why will the Canadian nationality have immense value in future? The Canadian valuesThe values [more...]
Have you ever wondered why you seem to have no success in matters of intimacy? Why your moments of intimacy are empty of the connection they’re supposed to physicalize? Or why you’re often in moments of intimacy with the body, but not with the mind?It’s funny how we can be next [more...]
Identity fraud occurs in every field and aspect of life. That is why I always educate men that anonymity won’t get past me. Nor will withheld numbers, false names, and all other strategies that men employ to protect their identities from women in roles similar to and very different from mine. [more...]
What are the differences between living in Toronto and London UK? How does a high end companion who has bases in Toronto and London UK compare life in them? If you’re travel curious, here’s a limited account. Reading this tale of two cities will be much lighter than Dickens!I divide my [more...]
How can animal owners use aromatherapy to ward off everyday unpleasant aftermaths of the animal world? Here are four tips: Aromatherapy for animal owners starts with odoursThe essential oils of geranium and lemongrass are great for dispersing animal odours. A traditional oil burner may mask the odours quite well, but at times you need to [more...]
Drinking water will certainly make any man sexier and healthier. Sexual performance and health go hand in hand. But drinking water doesn’t come easily to many men. Why? And what? And how?Drinking water regularly is important and necessary. Yet even this is a thing that many a man of today’s world does [more...]
In my previous article I described the signs and dangers of dehydration and outlined how drinking water is immensely important for men’s health, wellbeing, and productivity. But the resounding question is how to drink water correctly. Here are some answers. Beware of sweet beverages.The goal of manufacturers of sweet beverages is to get us to regularly [more...]
The obvious benefits of the beautiful art and science of massage are all over the internet. The four not obvious benefits of massage are here. The first of the less obvious benefits of massageis that it’s an excellent tool for grounding. Grounding is being down to earth – this time literally rather than figuratively. We [more...]
How are you voting with your energy? What do you want in life? Also, what are your highest values? Is having the right people around you important to you? Hence how often do you do what it takes to cultivate having the right people around you? Is connection a high value of yours? How often [more...]
With each coin of money you spend you’re voting. Spending money is as much a political act as, or even more so than, casting your vote on an election day. Every time you buy a product or service you’re helping an individual or a corporation to stay in business. Your vote [more...]
Every minute of your time on this planet you‘re making choices. Think of the options of saying yes or no to (s)exercise. By saying yes to one activity you’re saying no to a million others. Yet many men make choices with their time that prove wasteful. But unfortunately these men don’t [more...]
Do you prefer to be passive in intimacy? And why do some men wonder why their intimate partners don’t deliver quality intimacy either? I invite you to discover the answers.‘Passive in intimacy’ has two meaningsOne meaning is when a man prefers a woman to take charge in intimate matters, but actively participates [more...]
What are the most frequent critical mistakes that men can avoid when selecting a companion?1. Men don’t care who they go with Impatience, desperation, frustration, exhaustion, resignation, long-term suppression of pleasure, influence of substances, or various combinations thereof can drive this one. Hence when the urges hit, these men want a companion or “entertainer” [more...]
Being intimately frustrated is certainly not an accident. It happens because some things that men do and don’t do make it so. A man may think that the reason why he is intimately frustrated is rather straightforward. But in most cases it is not. Intimate frustration accumulates due to a combination [more...]
If you sit in cars or at desks for long periods of time, this quick simple neck and shoulder self-massage will relieve the creeping tension and tight painful muscles. And the relief will certainly heighten your productivity. So I invite you to learn it here!Step 1 of this neck and shoulder [more...]
To find a companion can be as exhausting as dating, and perhaps even more so. This is because the prevailing attitude is that because a man pays, he expects to get the perfect person and experience and the person whom he pays will be perfect on demand. If the person and experience do not turn [more...]
If men need to improve their intimate life, it’s clear feedback reflecting something they’ve been doing to this moment. The quality of a man’s intimate life won’t improve unless he acts to improve it. Placing the responsibility of improving it on others won’t get any man anywhere either. So no excuse [more...]
Most men who respond to massage ads still think and hope that they respond to ads for sex. Unfortunately in 95% of cases it is so, which makes the work of a genuine masseuse harder. Many men think that artificial sex with strangers is more rewarding than well done massage because [more...]
When you fancy a relaxing massage, how do you know which massage to pick before you start researching massage ads? Well, you'll learn that here. [more...]
